![]() ![]() Doctor just kept saying "when" you have your baby not "if" which was encouraging. Very grateful that we can do it in a controlled safe environment, and I won't have to relive that trauma again of experiencing it at home unexpectedly with copious bleeding, cramping, and pain. Should be a much quicker recovery than going the natural way, and they can also test the fetus to check for gene and chromosomal abnormalities afterwards. We went through my options, and have decided to do the D&C surgery tomorrow. No growth since Monday, no heartbeat present. Just want to update everyone that I had the repeat ultrasound today, and the miscarriage was confirmed. Crappy news to top off a crappy year, but hopefully 2021 will bring us our rainbow baby. After the first miscarriage we got pregnant before my period came last time, I wonder if maybe my uterus hadn't fully healed. She also advised waiting to get a period for the next go around, just to be on the safer side. I asked if I needed to see a fertility specialist since I've had two consecutive miscarriages in a row, and her response was: well, you're not infertile! You're getting pregnant! That's more than half the battle. She thinks it is more likely that it's just a chromosomal fluke abnormality, but testing the fetus will also be able to tell us more. Update 11/12: Just want to update everyone that I had the repeat ultrasound today, and the miscarriage was confirmed. ![]() Wondering if anyone here has had anything similar happen to them. I scheduled a repeat US for this Thursday 10/12 (which is 4 days from now) as I didn't really want to wait longer than that, the other option was 10/19 which seemed too long of a wait? I didn't want the miscarriage to start at home like last time and become an emergency situation. I don't understand why it isn't definitive now, since we basically tracked the pregnancy as it happened and we are sure about the conceive dates (10/3) Are there other factors to consider here? Is it possible I may go back in a week later and there may in fact be a heartbeat? Everything I'm reading seems to point to an impending miscarriage if no heartbeat is visible at 7 weeks? I burst into tears immediately, but the sonogram lady told me to come back in a week for a repeat US for a definitive decision. Since I am being monitored more closely (this is my 2nd pregnancy after the Sept loss) today I went back in for an Ultrasound at 7w2d, and though we saw growth since the last scan, we sadly did not see a heartbeat today and we should have. Also concerned that I really haven't had much in the way of symptoms aside from being a bit tired at night. My doctor did not seemed concerned with this, but I was a little bit. My hcg was 7,441 on 10/29, which seemed consistent with my dates and my progesterone was 20.2 on 10/21 but then dropped to 13.4 on 10/29. I went in on 10/30 for my first ultrasound at 5w5d and saw a tiny flicker on screen but couldn't hear or measure the heartbeat yet as it was still so early. ![]() Miraculously, I conceived again just 3 weeks later. The Daily Thread # 2 is posted later in the day, for general discussion.įeel free to post in both AM and PM, they are separated just to give people more space to talk, for later in the day updates, and for different time zones.Ĭommon Acronyms: r/ttcafterloss version Rules Resources Related Subs FAQ Sort by Flair The Daily Thread #1 is posted in the morning, for general discussion. The Intro Thread is a weekly thread to announce your pregnancy and introduce yourself. While not mandatory, introduction posts are encouraged in order for us to get to know you and your story. Many people who have experienced loss struggle to enjoy their specific bumpers sub, but here everyone has experienced loss, too. Here you can share your anxiety, your worries, your grief, your milestones, and your joy throughout PAL. Pregnancy after loss is a special kind of hard and this sub is an area where you will find other people going through it, too. Many of our members come here from r/ttcafterloss. This sub is for people who are pregnant after any type of pregnancy or infant loss. ![]()
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